Had an amazing creative friday night…finally convinced our friend Sona to record a song….she finally was satisfied after numerous retakes and a few hours of recording……Varun and shashi..made awesome omlettes ,anyways this post is to promote an upcoming singer…check this awesome recording
PS: She has agreed to record a duet song with me. We are recording an original composition which should be out soon
Found out an old piece I thought interesting enough to share
Everyone must have heard the word GT(girl talk),its when two girls talk about things and do not let their Guy friends know about it. its a conversation between two women/girls that is secret and protected from all men,what goes on there is something that I feel,being a guy I am not capable enuf to decribe or even guess,but have you ever heard the phrase BT(guys talk) or MT(mens talk).Well not too much I guess,I do not know if many guys subscribe to this philisophy or not because I never discussed this with other guys but most men dont really chat too much with other men.Here is a typical chat between two friends(may i say best friends).I have gone thru this routine atleast 1000 times
F1 sees F2 online
//start with pleasentries
F1: Hi
F2: Hey dude How are you
F1:M good you temme
F2:M good too
….awkward silence………
…they try to talk about work..
F1; So hows work
F2:Ya good
F2:Wat bout you
F1: Ya good..hey u in which company….still with Infy kya..(same question is repeated everytime you have a conv)
F2:Ya and you
F1 ya same
……….Silence…………………
….gettimg more generic to include almost everything in this world……
F2; So wassup…anythin new
F1:No same old and you
F2:Same here
………………….silence…………….
……………..switching to hindi/punjabi to include some interest….
F1:Hor dasso…zindagi kaisi chal ri..
F2:Sab khair hai aap ki dua se….kuch khaas nahin…
……….the age old question comes up…………EVERYTIME
F1: Ladki shadki mili ki nahin
F2:Nahi bhai hamari aisi kismat kahaan…aap batao
F2 No man no luck………..
……..Silence…….F2 goes offline online multiple times between this time…………..
F2:sorry was disconnected
F1:Ya..
………..Silence…………….f2 tries to divert to weather
F2: Aur Kidda US
F1:Bas vadiya
F2:Is it cold there
F1: Yeaah….
F2:Here too
…….Silence…………..
Both Give up…
F1..chal bhai ..g2g
F2:Yeaah Ok..bbye dude
F1 BBye stay in touch
F2 Sure
Everytime the same converstaion is repeated with little variations like plesentaries in Hindi “Namashkaaram”,failed attempts at humor ,”Babuji kaise ho”…….Aur ladkibaz………or abe kaisa hai be…..
and yes not to mention the utterly failed attempts at using smilies…:):) :D:D:D…the only two smilies used,dont know the reason but it just doesnt work with guys. It worlks like a charm when a guy is talking to a girl but not guy to guy…..somehow the fun, the punch is missing..
We are not really meant for chatting i guess.Put us in a room.give us a beer(or green tea in my case;),switch on a match and yeaah we are ready for some male bonding,but chat? No way….The only exceptions being when we are fighting or arguing over some matter,When it becomes a matter of pride :P,but generic chit chat,how was ur day kinda stuff is just wierd….
My male college friends just know that I am in US and its cold here and yes I vsited such and such places and have no GF 😛 ,and thats exactly what I know about them:P…….
But yes somehow the female friends(NOT GF) its different,they know how many pics I took,they know that i brushed with my shaving cream today:P:P..what I can cook etc etc and the conversations are filled with smilies with 😛 taking the place of simple :)……with a dash of :X and ;( in them……
I know there are exceptions .and i do not mean to say that the guy friends are not close enuf,actually they are much closer friends…..but somehow we cant chat…..maybe i am wrong…lemme know 🙂
BTW i would be highly obliged if some girl comes up and enliglighten us on GT
I was thinking a lot on optimism lately and was intrigued by the classification of optimism. What is exactly optimism and can it be classified?
So given below is a small list of classifications of optimistic types …..
DO you think you are optimistic? if yes which is your type
1.I hope tomorrow is good
2.I believe tommorow will be good
3.Tomorrow will be good
4.Tommorow has to be Good
5. I will make sure tomorrow is good
And their interpretation
1 .I hope tomorrow is good type
Are you sure you are an optimist? Is there a pessimist hiding under the blanket of optimist. It seems you believe tomorrow will be bleak but you hope it is not
2. I believe tommorow will be good
Yeah,there you are. Yes beliefs can change everything.The power of thought is the strongest power in the universe.
But check,is that your true belief or a forced one. Are you like “I hope tomorrow is good type” and just trying to be optimistic?
Whatever be the case,stick to your beleif because more you beleive more real it becomes.
God bless you
3.Tomorrow will be good
Now that’s an attitude. You know it,you just know it. You don’t need to put your belief ,your hope into it,you just know it and you know what ? you may be right.
But that shoud not stop you from trying,dont leave everything to fate,keep giving it your best shot,and whatever comes up will be good.
4.Tomorrow has to be Good
Ok hold on. Why tomorrow has to be good? Because today is worst or because you gave your best shot or fate Owes you a favor? If you depend on Fate or today’s conditions then you are not an optimist. You are a pessimist,but if you are giving it all you have to make a better tomorrow then you are my hero :).Because then you are challenging your fate. Do whatever you want,I decide my tomorrow and I have decided its good. I will be happy when i choose to be happy,i will be sad when i choose to be sad. People like you change the world.If you are one of these do leave your comments below and maybe send a message ;),ill get your autographs before you become too famous to read blogs like this
5. I will make sure tommorow is good
Now this is tricky,you could be type 1 with hope or you could be someone who has crossed type 4. Someone who has tested the waters and knows that fate is only one factor or happiness and not the deciding factor.
Most probably you could be someone who has not seen too much of upheavals in life either because of fate or either because of your strong belief in yourself,either ways you are good.Never Ever leave this attitude
So guys a question for you. Whats your type?
Leave your responses below
PS: If anyones interested in my type,I beleive I am somewhat between 4 and 5
Note: The entire article is based on my personal experiences and are my personal beleifs ,it may or may not be correct so please do not be too harsh in judging 😉